I dwell in Africa (Nigeria to be precise) and I have noted a simple fact: Nigerians are have no keen interest in children. Their hunger lies in the act that brings the children (sex).
How many young adults rejoice when their girlfriend break the news of the pregnacy to them? How many of these maidens rejoice when the pregnancy test comes positive?
So many rejected my proposal in my previous articles about virginity and anal sex. It will be a shame if any of my readers fall prey to unwanted pregnancy.
It should not be taken for granted that life changes in all aspects when a woman conceives of an unwanted foetus. A lady I know had to stop her tertiary education because of an unwanted child. The child is one year old but the mother has not returned to school. All her dreams in life have been shattered by a sperm cell. Taking care of the child drains all her energy and she can no longer carry out her high goals.
This should be seen as what it is without cause to excuse ourselves. Tell the young lady to her face how much she has failed herself. People claiming her child could one day become the President of the nation should stand aloof. The child rising to such a position doesn't prove me wrong. It doesn't bring back the wasted years or the shattered dreams. They are two different things. How can you explain others that didn't become Presidents? Some became thugs and miscreants. How do you explain that? Are you willing to take such chances or place a bet with your dreams? How deep are your dreams to you?